Life is really interesting the way it throws things at you. Sometimes, there are things you want so bad your teeth hurt. There are other things you want to be cosmos away from.
I believe there are many things like this in life. They all come at us for one reason or another... so we can grow (so the "experts" say). Sometimes I roll my eyes and think, "Oh, great..." But then I have to put aside the pessimism and let the optimism come in and decide what I am going to learn and take away from the experience.
It is strange how I find myself running from those things that cannot be far enough away as is. Then one day, it stops coming after you and you miss it. Maybe that is the animal instinct of the hunt and chase.
I often refer this analogy to boys. They enjoy chasing after something as long as it seems hard to get. But the minute the prey turns around and comes after them, the hunter pats its paw on its mouth and flops in the shade. The thrill and uncertainty are gone.
Sometimes this is a necessary tactic by prey, but often it is one of the biggest mistakes made by prey. A lot of times there is no chase when it is thought there is one (girls mainly being the ones in this frame of mind). I can say this because I was, at one time, president of this club.
Patience is the key word, and if those who are chasing, or being chased, are patient enough then good results can come of it. It is also sometimes favorable because one or the other realizes it won't have good results.
Patience... patience...