Monday, November 21, 2005

I am thankful for vacations

Vacations are a good time to reflect on what you have done. It also gives you time to think about what is to come.

The Thanksgiving Holiday will come as a welcome friend. I will be sleeping in, shooting a lot of photos and enjoying time with my family. Going to see my father's side of the family is fun, with the exception of Lois. I think she might be bi-polar... Odd, odd lady.

T and I ended up watching a movie on Saturday night, at about midnight. We watched Racing Stripes (cute movie for children). It was okay, not what we thought it was going to be. After the movie he showed me some self defense moves (everyone watch out, I can kick your butt now!). We watched some television and he got friendly, a little odd I thought. In the back of my mind came a voice saying he was just like all the others. But I did not want to believe it. I told myself, "Someone doesn't get this friendly if they don't like a person." I hope I am right, because it hurts to be wrong.

I seem to find those who want a one night something-or-other and then do the disappearing act. Ugh! I need to learn how to dicern better. I am worth more than that. Going out on one date does not constitute engagement, I know. But either be somewhat hands-off, or make the committment to that second call.

"Don't worry. Your dating life is just on sabatical," Jason said wisely. I just chuckled. But it is so true. I just want to find someone who will respect me for me and who I can go out and have a good time with. No more chasing (that is why I have deleated several phone numbers). If they cannot dial nine digits, then they are just not that into me. ;)

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