I found this paper tonight while searching for some other things. It was pretty interesting to read it and think back to when I did it.At the time I was working as the Managing Editor and our Advertising Manager's father-in-law was a councilor. He had each of us draw up this paper with specific things on it and he took it home to have it "analyzed."
We had to draw a tree, a picture of ourselves, write and sign our name, pen the date, our favorite and least favorite colors, and write a sentence. For a man who had no clue who I was, he nailed me pretty well to the wall.
His comments:
Rules are good
Structure and security
Be nice and kind
Too sensitive, get feelings hurt easily
Changes for people, masks...
Happy go lucky, fun fun fun!
Classy: good taste
Good friend, loyal
Advice: Be yourself
No masks for anyone
Be real!
My thoughts:
Rules are good as much as I hate them most times.
I love structure and security because it is a more for sure thing for me.
The sensitivity part I have been working on. I usually try to hide it, and fail most of the time...
I do have a tendency to change for people. In a sense I've made myself a camillion so I can fit in with whoever I am with at that time. I blame it on journalism...
I do love to have fun!
I do consider myself as a person with class and good taste (as funky as some people may think it is)
I do have a loyalty problem... I sometimes let it overrun more important things in my life... :/
I laugh as I look back on writing it because I changed some things "to throw him off." Psh! Whatever...
Sometimes in our lives, the things we think we hide to best are most often the most transparent. People can see through us, while we fool ourselves in to thinking it's hidden. This is one of the reasons I love feedback.
I challenge you to share feedback with someone today. You will make a difference :)
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